I had been seeing this guy who had just recently broken up with his ex of over a year. Mine did the exact same thing after 14 years. Instead, he feels comfortable enough with you to relay his stories or regrets from the past. You may disagree with him introducing his son to his girlfriends to soon, but when your son is with his dad, that's their time. My ex boyfriend of 5 years texted me 2 weeks before he moved on with this girl that he still love me. Had tried his best even though you refused to do absolutely anything for them 'coz of your past experiences 6. Why would they still be talking? Who your ex chooses to date is not your concern.
You have dated him for three years so this should no longer be a secret to his ex wife. It feels like he has two separate lives, and it makes me annoyed. Safety is the number one issue. There are many factors that can affect these triangulated , and how they are combined can affect the outcome in different ways. Ask him to quit talking to his ex cold turkey. The only motive for interacting with an ex that was associated with problems in the current relationship was thinking of the ex as a backup partner.
A man should want to make you feel safe and sucure on his own, not full of doubts and questions. He has asked you to marry him and you have spent 7 years of your life waiting for him to ask you, so make a decision. And yes, it's not a good idea to get involved with any guy who is still married to their Ex. I have been dealing with individuals and couples for over four decades. And when he isn't happy, bad things happen. She is the same age as me 60yrs and he is 65. Some men have a very difficult time emotionally letting go of an ex-wife, especially when the divorce was not their decision.
Moving on is only one of them. Last night we talked on the phone and he told me that he is stuck in a limbo because he really likes me but the emotional attachment is still there with the other girl even tho he knows it may not workout. He had a very toxic relationship with his ex wife. Why has this question generated so much interest? Is he really doing anything wrong? A few times he called me drunk calling me sweet names. In my gut, I just don't believe him but I am in love with him.
They have 2 boys together which he raised. From there you can protect yourselves from further abusers but there is still no guarantees. He is now hiding their continuing communication on purpose because I told him it makes me uncomfortable and asked him to stop it. However, it sounds like the issue of bringing dates around your son is something the two of you should have discussed prior to this woman's entrance into your ex's life. If not, then maybe relocating might not be a big deal for you. Nothing you say or do will help the situation. Often, when a woman decides to have an affair—emotional or physical—it is because she is not feeling emotionally secure, financially secure or supported by her husband anymore.
She will likely assume that person was there from the beginning and the reason for the break-up if her partner asked for the separation. I was a devoted caring loving jovial wife. It depends on your own values. Drop this person from your life entirely. If not, you run the risk of making the most common relationship-ruining mistakes. Just like other forms of overcompensation, this eventually comes around to sabotage him, and he winds up unhappier than he was before.
Girls can manipulate guys and their relationships to intrude enough to cause problems but not do enough for the guy to actually react and set the boundaries. Well in return I said okay I don't want you going to where she works and also please don't like her post on Facebook or keep posting things back and forth to each other because I knew how she feels about him. That would truly be the compassionate thing to do. Oh, Jorge, I love this question. In the country where i am from, we only have annulment of marriage and it cost a lot of money, which is one reason why we couldn't get married yet. If you have tried the thirty-day no contact rule, as you say you have, and this is the result you chasing him then it is time to let it go. He should be able to reassure you that your future is in place.
Yet her car is still in his name and she still uses his bank account. Your child may notice or daddy will grow up sooner or later. The more you bring her up, the more damage you cause to your relationship. It is disrespectful of the new relationship. Although he got jealous when he went into my phone and saw old messages and guys who had dated before who were my friends that I was still talking to he got really upset and told me that I have to stop talking to him or seen them if I was going to be with him.