In any case, even if they are not physically potent, their ability to keep it together at times when everyone around them is freaking out is certainly a show of mental strength if nothing else. When they care, they prefer to take action in order to prove this to those around them. To them, emotions just appear and need to be satisfied right away. Not just talking while walking to our respective residences he lived on campus and I lived off campus , but actually standing at the point where our paths divided and talking for hours. We're pretty sensitive to potential threats to our relationship. Actually my first vision was like 'Barbara Eden' in the classic 'I dream of Jeannie'.
We agree on most things, and we can relate our thoughts very well together. They are often capable of researching various topics, and will learn everything they can about the things that they are interested in. He will come back to you and communicate in his own way, which may seem cold or insensitive to us, but they are blunt! However, my PhD thesis required major corrections, which took me over a year to complete as I was also working full time. It feels we are connecting more at a deeper level. They remain optimistic and value harmony in their relationships.
I'm surprised at how straightforward everything is, but that's what I like most, I guess. It is comforting beyond words when another person and does not question you when you are lost in thought. Not in the sexist sense, but in the 'I know what I want I'm doing what it takes to get it My word is my bond' sense. Any insight on this would be appreciated. It's very difficult for sex to be casual for us.
None of it felt forced or boring. Relationship life is like a tunnel, long and much to explore. All of our external functions line up with corresponding internal functions of the other partner. What do you seek for in a relationship? I had never met someone so much like me, but with more confidence. Both have to be willing to grow. I try to keep my logic to a minimum.
It generally comes from parents that make them feel like their feelings don't matter. They lack neither intuition or feeling as primary traits. It happened twice before, and both times he came back to me but it took years! You will find out more answers to all of your questions by looking at him as a person and not as a type. This simply comes from the fact that they are passionate and honest individuals, who know what they believe in. However, I appreciate his efforts even more since I realize how different he is from me regarding emotional sensitivity.
It's probably a good idea to wait until he's ready, right? We love to go deep into analysis and theory, and hold long conversations. I think you would be surprised of the outcome. It is best to give us our space and to not take it personally. Both types fear vulnerability so much that it takes years to strip away the layers of protection and reach true intimacy. I don't want to take him for granted, and I've commuted my way out to see him before his class, and he's warmed up quite a lot after that. Ros tapestry charting the same thing now! I think it could work well, but depends on the couple and to me, how well adapted to type they are. And when this is combined with the natural power struggles of J pairings, such relationships may fail to get out of the starting gates.
I have befriended several introvert personality types in my lifetime. One of those crushes don't know her type reciprocated the feelings, but we could both tell we weren't supposed to date each other. They tend to believe they know what is best according to the personal and impersonal standards they value most. Not for not wanting to be with her as a partner thats your right but for not being clearer. Often act somewhat unsure of themselves.
They have a high respect for someone who can logically explain their problem or what is bothering them, and will work hard to find the most beneficial solution. He likely already likes you, for you. I do understand that I become very analytical. I love that they are always willing to spend time with me. We have only had to do this one time — I am an alcoholic and she saw in our bank statement a purchase at a liquor store. But instead of becoming a source of conflict or infighting, their contrasting perspectives can inform one another and present valuable points that can be integrated into their rational calculus. Wiederkehrende blicke der immer auf dessen interessieren.
We pride ourselves on offering unbiased, critical discussion among people of all different backgrounds. This may inspire them to gather as many facts and self-help strategies as they can regarding human psychology and relationships. His fun is manipulating people, so he takes great pleasure in getting away with stuff. If they were able to extrovert and deal with conflicts I think it could be great. Essentially, the two rarest personalities coming together and working harmoniously. But it took a lot of work to get him there, and it took a lot of work to get me to a place where I could trust him and help him to trust me. We value intelligence, honesty, authenticity, creativity, passion, and kindness.